Talk:Kick/@comment-5620839-20121129001025/@comment-5621472-20121129023442

You are beautiful. I may not see you, but through your words I know you are. It isn't the appearance that counts, it's what's inside. Being beautiful on the inside is all that matters, how you treat the world and people makes you beautiful.

Don't harm yourself because of what others may think. Trust me, I've been on the side where I wasn't the prettiest girls around, I've been insecure. Heck, my mother tells me to get more skinny but not for the fact that she's embarrassed of me.

Through my mother's words. I realized.

Don't change your personality. Don't change your appearance just because you think people hate how you look. It isn't other people's choices to control your body, it's yours and you have to make a good one.

I went on a diet not because of people's peer pressure on me. But because it was what I wanted.

If you want to loose weight. Do it for yourself, to become healthy. Think wisely on what you're doing. Will it affect your personality? Your friends? Your family? They care about your health and I do too. Don't starve youself, yes cut down meals if you want. But not to a point where you eat and your stomach rejects the food.

It isn't healthy. Do it for yourself. What do you want for yourself? No. Don't think about other people, pretend they don't exist. Because if you make a decision that affects your health and life, later on, the people you used to know won't be there to pressure you. You will end up regretting what you did.

Don't make a bad choice that affects everything in your life. Once you do, there won't be an easy way out. You'll regret it. Don't learn it the hard way. Trust yourself, be confident and smile.

A smile tells everyone, your comfy. Your independant. Your heathly and strong.

If your still insecure. Talk to me. PM me. Or talk with a close family member that may or may not have gone through the same thoughts.

We are family. I want to help.

-Bethany