Thread:This.Is.Me.Bethany./@comment-5750239-20130116012946/@comment-5750239-20130120185314


 * 1) 1 Girl, you are AWESOME (not to meantion a great writer)

so start small by just talking to him, I know it can be hard, but talking to him at all shows him that you have an interest in what he does and how he thinks, you can start off by just saying simple things: small talk, then work your way up to more slightly personal things, and don't be afraid of him judging you, he doesn't seem like the kind that would do that anyway (it seems like he does judge himself though), so just take the chance and show him you have interest

And, don't be afraid of showing emotion, we have emotions for a reason, but don't exagerate them either, like if something makes you happy than give a smile, or if your mad at someone express that so they know they have done wrong, I know that showing emotion can be hard, it can feel like you're giving other people power and the freedom to judge you, but here's the thing: they'll judge you anyway, so why torture yourself keeping it all in, and the boys a your school? idiots, no person should ever judge another by appearance, only by their true beauty: their character, and I know how boys can be (I'm definately not every boy's definition of their dream girl, far from it), but that shouldn't stop you from doing things you want or just being who you want to, if those boys want to juddge you by your appearance then you know I say: screw them, they are not deserving of a person like you anyways

and you want to know something? YOU are the one that would deserve better, I mean this boy has less courage than you, he dodn't even say what he was feeling, so don't even start thinking that he deserves better, you are an amzing person and you deserve the best, so I really don't suggest playing hard to get (he seems to shy to "get") be bold and show this boy what he's missing when you talk to him, he'll realize that if he wants a girl like you he'll have to work for it, you won't just give him what he wants (i realize i just kinda played both ends of that debate but you'll get what I mean in a sec)

basically, don't keep your distance, talk with him and get to know him so he knows that you have interest in him, but he wants to date you he'll have to find the courage himself

Okay, so that's the end of my VERY LONG explination. Hope It Helps! Keep me posted.

Always Stay Strong