Talk:Kick/@comment-208.47.162.90-20130112193454

You should not have to settle for an abusive relationship. I implore you, please tell someone. Tell a parent, teacher, friend, guidance counselor, or sibling if you are in an unhealthy relationship. They can help you get through it. Just know you are gorgeous/handsome, amazing, strong, kind, caring and wonderful. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise. If you are in an abusive relationship and you are thinking about self harming, please don’t. Get a journal and vent your thoughts and feelings to that. You wouldn’t believe how many of my best friends cut themselves. Every time I see a new cut on their arm or a new post talking about how they have just relapsed, it hurts me so bad and so deep in my heart. One time, my best friend confided in me that she cuts, and that had a piece of glass in her backpack. You know what I did? I physically wrestled her for it, took it from her, and made her watch me throw it out. I sent reassuring messages to another friend on Tumblr EVERY DAY telling her to stay strong and that I loved her. Just please don’t do it. Don’t ever self harm or put yourself through that kind of emotional and physical pain just because of one failed relationship. Don’t ever starve or purge yourself, self-harm yourself or attempt to kill yourself. You are wanted and loved by many, you just don’t see it because you will always think of that one person who broke your heart and spirit. You WILL overcome the odds and adversity. You will survive. You will NOT become just another statistic. You WILL survive. You just have to show strength and courage and stand up for yourself. If any of you are feeling any urges whatsoever to purge, starve yourself, self harm or to take your own life, I want you to message me. I have no wifi at my house, but that won’t stop me from saving the life of a stranger. Message me, and I PROMISE I will message you back as soon as humanly possible. I don’t care if you are a guy or a girl, or what fandom you are a part of, message me. I love you and please stay strong <3

~IDreamOfKick18~