Talk:Kick/@comment-110.171.19.247-20120515130053/@comment-3537741-20120517102946

that's really up to you. let me say this, though: even if you tell yourself not to like him, even if you tell yourself that he also likes that girl...even if you tell yourself not to HOPE, i don't think that will change the fact that you really like him and is still hoping. if anything, i think your feelings will just grow deeper if you think like that. believe me, i know. and besides, if he's really the one for you, he'll be yours, destiny and fate will make sure of it. if not, someone better will always come. and remember, even if you think that there's one in a hundred chance for him to like you, there's probably a one in a thousand chance that the girl and him'll end up together. after all, you said that she always gets the boys, right?? and even if it is one in a hundred, that's still 1%, better than nothing. that's just the beginning. you'll just have to increase that chance slowly...little by little...until it becomes 99%. but don't do it in a way that will change the you right now, do it in a way that he will like you for who you are. get to know him, spend time with him, show him your true self, whoever that may be. and if he still doesn't see you, it's his loss.

...i think i strayed away from the thought i was building up in the first few sentences...anyway, what i'm trying to say is, even if you tell yourself not to, that will only make you fall for him more; that will only make your crush go deeper. if you want to tell yourself "no. he wont notice me", then go ahead, be my guest. but you'll only hurt yourself. at least allow yourself the happiness of looking at him and thinking about him. but most of all, what i want to say is: be yourself around him, cuz if you change just for him, then that just shows that he doesn''t deserve you.